Sexting or texting? Do you know what your children are typing when they’re hunched over their phones?
The lingo they use might not make sense to many parents, but Local 12’s Sheila Gray has some tips on how to decode what’s become almost like a secret language.
BRB (be right back) and LOL (laugh out loud) are innocent enough, but have you heard of KPC (keeping parents clueless)?
Some texts aren’t for kids, yet guess who’s sending them?
Debbie and 13-year-old Gabby Shaw are your average mom and daughter duo, and no surprise, this 8th grader loves to text.
“[How many texts] a day? I’d say about 50,” said Gabby. “I am concerned of what she may receive,” said Debbie.
We showed gabby some PG-13 acronyms, and the fact that gabby had never seen some of these is a good thing.
Head of Child Psychology at Dayton Children’s Dr. Gregory Ramey has seen it all but he says that “As a parent and a professional, I wouldn’t know what these [texts] mean.”
We’ll keep it PG-13 and decode some of the acronyms we can actually say.
IWS means “I want sex.”
GNOC means “get naked on cam.”
GYPO means “get your pants off.”
Also, mom and dad, kids are talking about you too…
PIR means “parent in room.”
POS means “parent over shoulder.”
H4Y means “hot for you.”
TDTM means “talk dirty to me”
Words aren’t the only tools at your disposal either.
Emojis can be strung together to depict some pretty R-rated stuff.
They’ll become one of the 40% that will have sexual intercourse during their high school years. That’s what sexting is.
Dr. Ramey says one-third of kids sext. Be proactive and make sure your kids aren’t among them.
If you want to decrease the likelihood of your child sexting, begin at an early age to have a very open conversation with your children around junior high, that’s the best thing you could do.
“We have a trust factor, an open relationship where we’re communicating about it,” said Debbie. “I do go through the phone periodically but it has been pretty innocent so far.”
Experts say it’s wise to check up on your teens but advise parents not to do it behind their backs.